Slice of Life, Day 26--"A Friendly Face That I Didn't Remember!"

My hand was raised with computer problems, again, in my Professional Development classes today.

Suddenly, "Hi, Katy!"

I looked back at the unfamiliar face smiling at me---someone who clearly knew me, but that I did not recognize! Panic!

(This happens quite a bit to me this year, as I've traveled around my new District meeting a ton of new people, but remembering a shameful number of names and faces. It's a problem.)

I tried harder, but still could not place this friendly face.

She smiled again, and said, "You don't remember me, do you?" I finally shook my head, sheepishly. "We sat next to each other at the Christmas party, remember?"

And then I did remember.

In December, I was invited to the Christmas party for people in the District who travel around like me. Only, most of the invitees were instructional coaches, curriculum specialists, etc...and then there was me: the Title I teacher for Non-Public Schools. I RSVPed "no" because I was too scared to go meet a bunch of people I didn't know in a place I felt I didn't belong. I was afraid of being around all the people who intimidate me, especially in a new District.

A kind colleague changed my mind, and I had a wonderful time. It was a party full of laughter, smiles, and warmth.

But, mostly, I remember how I felt: WELCOMED.

This lady, unfamiliar today, made a huge difference in my experience at my new District that day. During a vulnerable time for me, a scary moment, she (and many others) made me feel like I belonged.

I apologized over and over today for not remembering her face, but made sure she knew that I remembered her and her kindness to me that day.

Belonging is important, even for adults! I hope I make others feel like that.